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282 Murders and All We Got Was This Lousy Technology Grant (1/9/2008)
Burned (11/7/2007)
Overloaded power outlet source of fire in Mount Washington firehouse lounge
Under Fire (7/11/2007)
Embattled Fire Chief William Goodwin Jr. Faces The Heat
Alone in the Dark (2/4/2010)
Two excellent peformances anchor this emotionally powerful experience
Murder Ink (2/3/2010)
Curtain Time (2/3/2010)
Wow. No mention of Bealefeld's recent succes over the past several months until the very end... and then only sparingly. So here I go -- I am going to try and hate Anna Ditkoff more than I already do. Count along with me. Here I go... 3, 2, 1 GRRRRRRRRRRRR!!!!!
Nope. I couldn't do it. It is literally impossible for me to hate this ghoulish beast any more than I already do.
Anna, people like you with your sick fascination wearing a mask of compassion are part of the problem. A big, big part. You just love to wallow in defeat and despair. It's cool to you. It's not to us -- the people who are really trying to make things better.
You friggin' ghoul.
I’m not going to pretend to know how to fix the crime problem facing Baltimore City. I’ve lived here my entire life having grown up in PigTown. I went to Public schools, graduating from Poly back in 99. After all these years I keep coming back to the same conclusion. A lot of the people living in the city have a bizarre outlook on what’s right and what’s wrong, and they are living in denial. Take this passage for example:
“Beale's son Harold Robinson was part of the 87 percent who had criminal records.”Yes, he had a record, I ain't ashamed to say it, but, thank you Jesus, he changed his life," Beale says.”
How many times have we watched crying mothers on the evening news praise Jesus ( for what I can’t figure out) swearing that their son or daughter was a good kid only to then see, flash across the screen, a pile of previous offenses. The news shows vigils and candle lit stoops surrounded by young black men with solemn faces. Where were these feelings of remorse while they were dealing drugs around the corner? It’s all a hoax! Most of the people living in these areas don’t care enough to change a thing. How can a mother cry for her dead child when she never did a thing to help them out? How can a community weep for a lost member whose presence won’t be missed as soon as the news cameras stop rolling? Baltimore’s biggest problem is that its communities are without leaders and its residents are in denial; busy blaming the “system” for its problems.
We’ve all read about a decline in small businesses in east and west Baltimore. It’s been blamed as a contributing factor in the demise of many neighborhoods. No businesses equal no jobs. Well what business owner is going to set up shop in an area rife with violence? My old neighborhood of PigTown is a good example. The entire time I was growing up all I heard was how the city was going to fix up the neighborhood. They were going to rebuild Carol Park and fill in Washington Blvd with retail shops and restaurants. The reason I moved to Canton is because PigTown is no different today then it was when I was a kid. Sure they cleaned up the park some and they sold the old Montgomery Wards building but what good is that. So now the Parents have freshly manicured ball fields to throw punches over during the summer months and county residents can swing in and out of the city for work. I can’t blame shop owners for not wanting to open a store there! The residents aren’t even demanding new stores. The only people who actually care are the new residents who were naive enough to buy into the hype generated when Camden Crossing was built.
I want to end this by taking one more quote from today’s front page article. If this doesn’t sum up the denial that Baltimore’s residents are in then I don’t know what will.
“Beale doesn't feel that her son's murder is less important because he did time.”I don't care whether they were selling drugs, what they were doing. You had no business killing nobody,"’
Opieatdream for President.
Seriously. Couldn't have said it better myself. And the worst part is that our elected leaders feed this state of denial with empty promises and quick fixes. They need the city to remain mired in it's own bullshit. But don't blame O'malley...or Dixon...or Hamm....or the system in general.
I SEETH with anger when I see the screaming mothers on the 6 o'clock news...lamenting the the death of their poor 'good kid'. The one who was shot while "hanging out" on a street corner at 2am. Gee mom, where were you when it was time to teach your kid about personal responsibility and the honor of an honest day's work? Oh, that's right you were too busy talking on your cell phone and waiting in line down at social services. Whoops. Maybe next time.
Wake up Baltimore. The police are not in charge of raising your kid, or teaching him/her values. That's your job. If you fail please spare us the sound bites and street interviews. And what sort of caring parent remains in the same drug and violence infested neighborhood where two of her children were shot? Perhaps she should have taken some of the large amount of money she clearly spends on hair and nails and moved her family somewhere safer. Oh but I'm sure there's more to the story...hair and nail money doesn't grow on trees.
opieatdream and knoa - youve got to be kidding me. is that really the first thing that comes to mind when you read this article?
while it's true that an entire community is responsibe for the violence on its streets, i dont think youre accomplishing anything by railing on parents who have lost their children. it is incredibly stereotypical of you to assume their parents "never did a thing to help them out." leaving a violent neighborhood isnt always that easy - youre forgetting that a lot of these parents work their asses off to put food on their tables, and it can be overwhelming to be there for your kid in every aspect of his life when youre trying to keep your family out of poverty.
i dont think denial or neglect are the problems - no one is denying their is a problem. i dont see how looking down from your high horse and blaming the parents is any different from what youre accusing them of. no parent should ever have to outlive their child, let alone their three children.
i dont know the solution to all this violence, but i do know that tossing blame does nothing.
getting away from a violent neighborhood like opieatdream did is understandable, but not everyone has that option. im not trying to harp on the two previous commenters, but it just hurts to see such ignorance, spite and generalization.
knoa, you seem to be implying at the end of your comment that there's more to the story, insinuating some sort of sinister means of income - how can you so baltantly stereotype someone? just because they live in a poor neighborhood but have material things, you automatically assume they are criminals?
it's not the parents who are in denial; it's you. you see these ppl as so separate from yourself that you have no problem generalizing about their characters and essentially ignoring them. this is the real problem: declaring that no one can help these people until they help themselves, throwing your hands up in defeat, and walking away. upon closer inspection, i think it's clear that there are those who do desire to better themselves and their communities. refusing to recognize these individuals as anything other than part of a "violence infested" whole does not solve anything.
Opieatdream definitely said what a lot of us feel. Right or wrong, accurate or not, I am also tired of feeling any compassion for the people that live in continuing cycles of violence, poverty, and ignorance. I simply just no longer care about them in any way, not even on a basic human level. I don't say this out of hate. It is the same to me as watching two ants fight. It is just what they do. I truly have given up hope for helping many of the people in Baltimore, I have thrown up my hands and walked away. I do have spite, but only bc the elected officials keep raising my taxes to pay for useless programs or bc of the crime I must personally deal with bc the police are unable to keep it contained. I do see these people as amazingly hypocritical. They stand there and ask for help from the police, but then never give cooperation to any police investigations. They talk about keeping killers and criminals off the streets when it is their own criminal child on the streets. They talk about needing role models for their children when there is not a single role model in their entire family. They talk about better schools then don't force their own child to go to school and actually learn. They spend more money and time on clothes, rims, jewelry and hair than they do on teaching their child the value of education and hard work. Then after all this they have the audacity to blame "the system" and say that white people and the government don't care about them. I say "they" bc I don't see them as a part of my culture, my world, or my life. THEY are a cancer.... and we haven't found a way to cure cancer yet. I don't see all black people in this light. I don't see all poor people in this light. However I do see a lot of people in Baltimore in this light. I just don't understand how the standard for intelligence, morals, politeness, cleanliness and honest work became so low in this city. So when you say we should get off our high horse I find it to be a bit baffling. I have never been a conceited person, however I could never sink so low as to look a lot of these people in the eye. Again, I don't say this with even a touch of anger, I simply just no longer care about their situation.
"i dont know the solution to all this violence, but i do know that tossing blame does nothing. "
Sure if you're talking about the weather, or an accident. However, when the discussion involves failing to participate in the raising of your own children, opting instead to bitch and moan about the "system" and how it failed you....then blame is absolutely appropriate. Maybe holding people accountable is a nice way to say it.
Bleeding hearts like you only serve to keep disempowered people down. I'm sure it makes you feel better to walk around wearing your politically correct opinions like a badge of honor...but at the end of the day, they are only meaningful to you.
I completely agree knoa.
One of the major problems one encounters when feeling sorry for a group of people is that they eventually instill in the group of people a sense of hopelessness. The reason I got out of Pig Town is because I was always told that Pig Town wasn't good enough for me and that if I stayed there it was my fault for not trying hard enough. No one ever shook their head in agreement with me when I said it was tough living their. No one ever coddled me and said “yeah we know the odds are stacked way against you”.
Perhaps if more people told these folks they could do better if they stopped bitching and actually did something then they would change. Telling them that we understand it's hard and that we sympathize with their plight, knowing that the odds are stacked against them, is not the way to help. Sure we might feel better about ourselves at the end of the day but did we really do anyone a service by further affirming their disbelief?
Wow..these comments are sad. Some of YOUR parents should truly be ashamed. I thought this was a wonderfully researched article, full of facts and difficult to set up interviews with all the principal power brokers. Even the title asks, what can be done? The comments show why your city is so dangerous. You have dangerous pop psychology tough love individualistic beliefs. Take ownership and accountability for your CITY problems and get out of denial and turn off Dr Phil maybe. This writer has done a great job and public service, which is more than anyone can say about any of you commentors. It would clearly appear that the people of Baltimore have created the mess their in. It is like she wrote, denial. All that takes for evil to prevail is for good people to do nothing! The doctor explained, stupid asses, to pick yourself up from the bootstraps, you have to have bootstraps first! Shock and Trauma victims have to be treated like car accident victims. From what I can see, you have holier than thou citizens in Baltimore who are truly SCARY and a big part of the problem. Hope someone shakes some sense into you--you're probably part of the 58 % of the high school dropouts from the public schools right? Sickening
Way to go wonderland! Man, obviously we've struck a nerve in you!
To answer your question, no I'm not a dropout. I went to Baltimore city public school my entire life and eventually earned my BA in English at Towson University. It may also surprise you that I am a registered democrat. However, with that being said I've lived my entire life in this city and have grown tired of watching hypocrite mothers and loved ones crying for their slain children. If they are truly this upset about their living conditions then why don't they do something to stop it? Why is it that the only time we see any reaction from the community it’s in response to violence that has already happened. I grew up in one of these areas ( Pig Town) and saw tons of derelict mother and fathers crying for their incarnated/killed children. They always go on about how they loved them, and how they were good kids, and how they couldn’t understand how it got to this point ect. The irony is that until something bad happened none of them even cared enough to make sure their children were safe. They didn’t even have a clue as to what their children were involved in.
Now I’m not one of these county transplants that came here for the excitement of city life. I’ve lived here my entire life and plan on living her for the rest of it. It’s a uniquely middleclass privilege to remain PC about all of this. I’m not staying PC because frankly, what’s occurring in Baltimore poor neighborhoods is embarrassing!
A movement comes from within a community not from outside of it. So if you think that you and I or anyone of us “outsiders” is going to be the catalyst that sparks a change, then you’re wrong.
There's no possible way to stop the crime in Baltimore in m opinion.Nobody listens to laws and rules any more their meant to be broken.Everybody's gonna do what they want to fdo because of the type of attitude they have. They probabyl feel like nobody would give a damn if there life was tooken so why not just take somebody elses.We all know before anything goes down in the streets it starts on how u raise your children at homes.If you raise them right,not judging anybody on how they raise their child,but eventually there will be somebody to break the cycle.They eventually stand up and say the streets aren't for me,I'm gonna stay in school and get my education and be even better then my parents were.Make something of myself so everybody can remember my accomplishments when I'm gone and not all the negative stuff.
Baltimore City crime rates are extremely high. Everyone asks the question "What can be done to decrease the crime rates?", Is there an answer? If I cant or the government and the mayor can't come up with a solution then I don't think theres going to be any improvement. Criminals today get away with a lot of crimes even if their convicted of a crime, their punishment is lame and not strong enough.
you're probably part of the 58 % of the high school dropouts from the public schools right? Sickening
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So wait...you liken high school drop-outs with limited mental capacity, yet WE'RE the ones with a "holier than thou" attitude. Unbelieveable.
I can assure you, I have more education than I probably need - however, one of the welcome by-products of all my education is that I'm trusted to work everyday with the people this article discusses. Do you? I doubt it. Because if you did you would know that the issues in the communities discussed stem from the apathy that's grown in those areas over the last 20 years. Sure if you increase the opportunities for training and education you can improve a community. However, motivation is the key...and that can't be given freely by me or anyone else that works in human services. We can only be the agents of change...the real work needs to occur in the people who are affected.
There's an old saying...at least I think it's old..who knows...anyway it goes:
Why doesn't a pig complain when it's rolling around in it's own shit?
Because it's used to doing so...
I agree with you that everyone needs to pitch-in to bail this city out. But babying people and treating them "like car accident victims" is certainly not the way to lend a helping hand. It's a great way to create a dependant person and avoid teaching valuable life lesson however. It's unfornate how the liberal types are so selfish that they can only see worth in plans that star themselves as the savior of downtrodden people. After they've patted themselves on the back and told all their friends about how giving and helpful they've been, the target populations simply return to a life of dependance and nothing changes.
Anyway...good luck. I'll be doing my part I assure you.
I have to...it's my job.
:)
I would like to thank everyone for their honest opinions. I'm an African American male from Baltimore and I think that the drugs, poverty, and hopelessness is taking a huge toll on the city. The teenagers are so wild and sociopathic that they will shoot you in the head and fifteen minutes later go eat a hamburger. When I come home from college it look like a war zone with so many injured and killed. You have young people who committed murder still on the streets and their enemies just waiting for the opportunity to add their names to the body count. You have gangs who care nothing about their members only the money they bring in by destroying their community. They manipulating the young and ignorant buy making these kids go out and rob, steal and even kill. These are the children of the crack epedemic and unless we break the cycle the magic number of 353 homicides in a year will be surpassed by 2010. The solution is to develop a new generation of youth that no longer see drugs, gangs, poverty, and hopelessness as a way of life. We need to teach them that this is the new form of enslavement caused by us and the system can not break this cycle. I love Baltimore and I hate the fact that I may never live there again or raise a family in the city. I also hate the way the HBO show "The Wire" glorify the negativity of the inner city and make Drug kingpins and killers look like modern day heroes. I pray for Baltimore and I also pray for the families who lost kids to violence and also to the families who will continue to lose love ones to violence in the streets of Baltimore.
My dear opieatdream said:
I am Harold's mother and i never asked u or anyone for pity. I did the article in hopes it could help another mother and child. You need Jesus in your life. Jesus has promised to judge u,who has the nerve to judge without any knowledge or facts.
I am not ashame of anything, Jesus died for all our sins and that includes u. I said and say again my son got in trouble when he was younger.You sound like a fool, to think because years ago a person made a mistake and went n to doing all the right things, they deserve to then be killed.
I am trying to understand, why u think that because my son had a previous record, he should be killed? U can not have it both ways, either we want people that make wrong choices to learn from their mistakes and turn over a and become a productive citizen or what?
I never took up for any wrong my son did, just the opposite. All nthat know me, called me Minister Farrakhan, because i stayed on the youth. I turned my child in to police, so get your facts straight. We are not on welfare,nor watching soaps. I been working 40 years,a missionary for my church and baltimore city.You did not see me on the news crying, if u saw me i was at war.I am not going to allow anyone to kill my son, anyones son and its business as usual.
I cry, i love and miss my son.Yes a hundred times he was a good guy. You can talk to hundreds of people and all say the same. All he did was work,loved football,movies and eat.He did not smoke,drink,hang out and did not have children/wife.
For your ignorance, i have Baltimore city detective children and alot of family members on the force.
My son and i were best friends. He never let a day go pass without bring me lunch or calling. He always was with me. He insisted that i stay at his house. I was there 3/4 times a week. He showed me with love and affection.He was always by my side.When i had triple bypass , he was holding my hand and hired someone to help take care of me.
You did not know MY SON MISS.
God can do all things.Apostle Paul and david were murders, but look what God did!
Everyone said he loved his mother. Complete strangers,old and young spoke highly of him.Complete strangers and people i know said all he talked about was his mother. He went around the neighborhood talking to youth about his past bad decisions.
Why would u assume living in South Baltimore meant proverty and other problems? Thats so ridiculous!
I do not know what kind of home u came from in PIGTOWN(PART OF SOUTH BALTIMORE) but WE LOVED our neighborhood and community. Maybe u were poor, I do not know but speak for yourself.I was not trying to get out and so many people now want to live there.I had a wonderful upbringing,with God-fearing strict parents and Elders. It was a villiage.
It is sad for u to think that my son was in poverty. I grew up in South Baltimore also, so did 6 generations of us. We are a well known, highly repected family.My family were property owners. We all worked, went to church and lived a respectable life.I went to college.My mother was one of the first black hairdressers.. Most of us are police,ministers and alot of different careers.
Last of all u do not know these Mothers,I do and most of them are hardworking parents, who raised their children.Alot of the victims were not involved in crime, as my son, who was working when he was killed. Working parttime, as he should.BY the way, Ms.Whiting owns her home and it is beautiful and in what u in ignorance would call a GOOD NEIGHBORHOOD.sHE IS GOD-FEARING AND A HARD WORKER.HER SON WENT TO AHRBOR TO EAT, IS THAT A CRIME MISS?
OUR CHILDREN WERE NOT KILLED WHERE THEY LIVED.DUH
It was not over drugs, over a morning fight, that my son was not involved. He was not even there. The killers were not even there, someone they knew was there and involved in the fight THAT MORNING. They were called AND CAME TO GET EVEN. The criminals came at night, when my son was working and did ot care who they shot.
Look around u, neighoods do not matter, parenting do not matter,it is happening to the best of us and not just in Baltimore City.
to......On 1/24/2008 4:00:23 PM, knoa said:
Thank God we are part of the solution and not like u. We pray that u are not a mother to be of a murder victim.
I same the same to u, as in the article,READ my lips... i do not care what the victim was doing, drugs,etc...no one has the right to kill another.Is this clear? Denial we are not in!
My son was working,doing al that u and others like u think a person should be doing. Now what? because he use to have a record, its okay to kill him?
No one has the right to kill anyone miss. Read the BIBle.
u are not christ and have many sins, i am sure. Hiding behind this.You are not sinless and therefoe from what u say, its okay if someone kill u, because u have sins. How stupid?
To...
On 2/1/2008 10:45:03 AM, knoa said:
If u work for the system then we are in even more trouble. U have the wrong attitude and U,criminal cops, who ever has so much hatred, need to be purged from the system. Alot of u hide your hatred,pwerstruck, attitudes, but u will be exposed.
Look around, the mighty are falling.
No, the problem is piss poor manpower management within the city police department. they have more officers withing their violent crime impact division than they have in any of the street patrol districts. Simply put, there isn't enough of a uniform presence on the streets. All these young officers think it is cool to be able to jump into their under cover cars and go out and do absolutely nothing for eight hours, with little to no accountability. They arrested my nephew and charged him wih trestassing because he was siting on the front toop of a vacant house waiting on the bus on his way to work. my nephew had never been arrested before that incident. He is a law abiding citizen who actually is in the application process with the county police.you want the problems in the city to go down, start with the leaders.
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The city of Baltimore needs to get the guns off the street. The only way to do this is through a zero tollerance policy for law breaking.
We need to set up a ticketing system where if you are caught breaking a minor law, such as spitting, loitering, urinating in public, drinking in public, etc, you are not arrested, but given a ticket similar to a minor traffic violation. The police should then use the opportunity to frisk the offender to look for guns.
Everyone wins with this system. Residents win because the laws are enforced and the quality of life in city neighborhoods is improved. The police win becuause they get to search a person and get the guns off the street. Even the violator wins because they don't get an arrest record out of the process.